Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts

Saturday, 20 February 2016

40Acts - Day 10: ' SPUR ON '



Our words have immense capacity for good. When we use them encouragingly, generously, and genuinely, there are few things that have more power. A timely word can change the course of someone's day, or even someone's life. 

Use words wisely.


A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. 
(Proverbs 25:11 ESV)

‘A word fitly spoken,’ says Proverbs 25:11, ’is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.’  

Other versions have ‘golden apples in a silver basket’ or ‘on a silver tray’.  A shining, striking image that portrays the effect of good words: they create a relationship and invite more words to be echoed in reply, like the light between two beautiful reflective surfaces.  Generous words given to us become words that can flow out generously to others.

We can all think of golden apples that have been handed to us. Many of mine came from a student teacher who, although he only spent one term working in the school where I was a pupil, is one of the adults I remember most fondly. I was dealing with that common 13-year-old’s problem of feeling completely invisible, but this teacher never walked past without a quick, encouraging word or two. He could see me! Later, he wrote in my yearbook two words: ‘Never change.’  Two golden apples for a confused, insecure teenager – treasured for years.

Jesus, too, is a great giver of golden apples. ’You are the salt of the earth,’ he told the gaggle of uncertain fishermen who followed him around; ‘you are the light of the world’ (Matthew 5:13–14 NIV). Later, as he was about to leave them, he told the same group of people that he called them his friends, that he had chosen them to bear fruit, and that they should love one another (John 15:14–17).  

Jesus’ generous words are meant for those of us who follow him today, too. If we let them take root in us, they will eventually produce the fruit that he promises, and then we’ll give it to someone who needs it: golden apples, on a silver tray.

Today's blog was written by Amy Robinson. 
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Saturday, 29 March 2014

Life Looking Dark?

Then hopefully this image will provide a moment of encouragement, solace and hope:


Even in the deepest hole (and I used to work very deep underground at one stage - places where natural light has never been) the slightest glimmer of light becomes so amazingly intense.

May the light of God's love shine into the dark places of your life today

Friday, 8 February 2013

Motivating our children: a recollection

Thought you might like this recollection of an encounter with a Local Education Authority's 'Careers Advice' person form the sixties:

"The interview took place in one of the classrooms with the 'Career's man' sitting behind the desk smoking his pipe (the reason the boys gave him the nickname, 'Maigret'). After having been told to sit, I was asked what I wanted to do. My answer to this was that I wanted to be an electrical engineer.

The Career's man looked at my school reports for a few minutes and then, not even looking at me, told me he knew of a local builder who was looking for someone to work with him and that this, having 'read' my reports was the 'career' I was obviously best suited to. When I protested he shot me down by telling me that my maths wasn't good enough to be and that if I persisted in 'demanding' a job in that area the careers service would refuse to assist me with such folly.

Suffice to say that my response saw me in the Deputy headmaster's study getting the cane and having to write a letter of apology for my ingratitude and rudeness!

A few weeks later the process was revisited and as I walked in to the classroom my career's advisor (laughing) greeted me with, "Aha, the electrical engineer.  Come to your senses yet boy?'

I responded that indeed I had and, with a bit of a smirk, explained that I had already had three interviews and practical assessments and was about to go for my final interviews for apprenticeships in various areas of science and technology. I thanked him for his 'most enlightening and motivational help and wished him farewell.' As I stood up he told me to sit as he needed to enter the details of the companies and interview dates for his records.

As I made my exit I turned and said, 'Why not put down the name of the building firm and save us both time?'   I think the sight of his red face will live with me for ever.

When I compared notes with some of the other boys I found that they had fared no better than I at the first meeting with the man (who later became head of the County Careers Service) and a couple of stories I can remember went like this:

Wanted to be: Aeronautical Engineer
Suggestion: General airport work
Ended Up: Fully certified Engines and Airframes engineer (living in the US)


Wanted to be: Footballer
Suggestion: Woodsman or forestry worker
Ended Up: After footballing apprenticeship went on to become PE Teacher.


The account of the career advice given then, and now, and the battle with the Hounslow school all conspire to challenge me to challenge others. Motivating our children with regard to their future employment is an area I have never thought of as being something Church should be engaged with but if we don't see past community history and demographics, if we don't see past low-attainment family histories to encourage the next generations to fulfil their potential, who will? IMD is a pointer to the areas that need input not a death knell!

Pax