Showing posts with label permissive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label permissive. Show all posts

Monday, 31 March 2014

Blue Sky Thinking - Inclusivity

This is one of those thoughts that has caused a fair bit of dialogue - but perhaps that's because what it says is real!

Now that's a thought in itself, innit?


Monday, 20 January 2014

Makes Sense to me: Cultural lies

The words on this image are so very true and yet, even if you agree with them, I wonder how many people (including perhaps yourself) commit the acts or own the attitudes they refer to?


The truth is:

I don't fear people who are different to me (unless of course they are dangerous)

I don't hate the people who are different to me (although if they're not nice then, even if they're like me, well - you know!)

I do love people who are different to me (and that love means I am accepting and inclusive - but it doesn't mean I am permissive).



Tuesday, 29 October 2013

Faith: 'Not as clear cut as you might think!'

had a most interesting conversation this morning, the pinnacle of which was the statement: 'Christianity is not as clear cut as you might think!' which provided me with plenty of food for thought. After all, I've always known that, as has any thinking and open Christian, so why the surprise? Probably because the issue under discussion was one that actually I considered to be pretty clear cut!

The conversation centred along the lines that the defining Bible passage for everything was the 'golden rule' - that we treat others as you'd we'd to be treated and this was the basis upon which every attitude and act was judged. That we just loved our neighbour as ourselves and
made real the words of Matthew Chapter seven's account of the sermon on the mount as we refrained from judging and accepted whatever others did, approving and affirming rather than rebuking or denying.

Apparently the key to removing what some consider to be 'sin' is to remove the label sin from it. What we need to do is accept that people are different and the 'one size fits all' approach of Christianity is flawed and doomed to fail from the start. Better to accept that we're all different and concentrate on the things we can agree on and agree to accept the things (perhaps ignore is a better term) we can't.

The Church is an evolving body of people and they are realising that what we believed in centuries past is no longer relevant or valid. People are apparently realising that these days 'we are not called to live and act' as they did before and 'happiness' is the universal indicator of the rectitude of such thinking.

Having heard what they had to say, I have to be honest and say that I thought their views to be flawed and not merely self-indulgent and approving but actually, if Christian is what we are as a breed, a terminal disease!

There are many good things to be found in this world and many that are obviously bad - or are they? After all, I hear more and more people proposing that we should act illegally to deal with people who act wrongly - so the old statement 'two wrongs don't make a right' has now obviously itself become wrong.

One of the joys of being Christian is that we have, or at least should have, doors, arms and hearts that are open to everybody - for Church is an 'inclusive' entity. The problem for many comes with the reality that it is not a 'permissive' entity.

So this morning, whilst I heard what was said I really couldn't agree with it because what was being demanded was that I put aside my views in favour of theirs in the name of some misplaced understanding of love. I was being told that the only way to be loving was to ignore those things I considered wrong in the name of unity and 'being kind'.

The stumbling block for me came with the parting shot in that the other party considered that what they were asking for was exactly what Jesus would have done.


Obviously not only a different theology on display here but a different Jesus too!


Friday, 12 October 2012

Church - Inoculates against faith epidemics

Many years ago when I was a Pentecostal Pastor type I became aware of the Church's practice of inoculating non-believers against developing a most chronic disease - faith! Let me explain:

Inoculation is the process whereby a body is exposed to a weakened form of the contagion which triggers causes a mild strain to be developed. This situation brings about an antidote to the 'disease' that is faith in the well-known, 'I've tried it before thanks!' antibody.

here's a couple of 'for instances':

As a Pentecostal Pastor I attended many services where people were asked to commit their life to jesus. They were asked to stand (as a public witness) and pray the 'sinner's prayer' and were then told, "Congratulations, you have made an important decision today - you are now Christians! Welcome."  And then they went home.

Sometimes we took their contact details and tried to help them become regular members (which now seems as if this might have been the most important bit :-(  ) and other times we left the 'new believer' to make their own way in the sea of faith, swimming as best they could (but always with the promise that we were there if they needed us). Sadly, whilst some of these tried to grow their faith, many others never did and this sows the seeds for immunity to the call of God later.

My second 'for instance' comes from the large evangelistic event such as missions and 'Crusades' (not a harken back to the good old days of Saladin but more reminiscent of Billy Graham, Luis Palau and Peter Polycarpou - who I'm sure goes by the name J John these days) and the pouring in of people to football grounds and tents (not what we mean by intents Christianity I'm sure).

I was a counselling supervisor at one of the large mission somewhere events and a few weeks after the event had a go at contacting a random sample of those who had come through the doors as having made a commitment. My sadness was that not a single one of the people who had made a commitment had actually settled into a church congregation (and they were all represented).

What we had done in both examples was 'spawn bastards' for we had brought them (supposedly) to 'New Life in Christ' and failed to parent them (for this is what making new believers is if we don't bring them through to maturity as shown by being disciples!).  If you think this, or the words I am using are harsh then I can but point you to Paul's words in Hebrews  12: 7 - 8:

"For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline - then you are not legitimate . . . "

The Church is guilty of presenting a weakened form of Christian faith to people in the hope that a weakened strain will be both palatable and acceptable. One insipidly weak strain presents some form of permissive ersatz Christianity, which sadly is assumed to be merely 'inclusive'. Another tries a social gospel and something that makes Jesus look like a New Testament social worker or Green campaigner. Yet another attempts to work on the fear glands of those outside the Church by frightening people into Church by presenting the grim spectre of hell (and offering Jesus as the great 'Get out of Hell free' card!).

Sadly, there are many more strains including the fundamentalist, the 'True  Church', the Charismaniac, the isolationist (we really are the only true believers left - honest) and more than I have time, or inclination, to describe at this time.

Here's the reality - we need to engage with a 'full strain' variety of the Christian faith with the effect of making Christ known in the host and bringing forth the symptoms of discipleship. This will in turn bring our sympathetic cell cultures of commitment,  worship, prayer and (let's make the archdemon's happy) paying the Parish Share.

We need to stop worrying about numbers - let them take care of themselves (like grey hairs).

We need to stop worrying about Parish Share (but always ask ourselves whether we can justify a post)!

We need to concentrate on talking about Jesus such that people catch the bug and develop a full set of symptoms - a full on, in your face, active and aggressive strain that infects the places we serve and the people who live nearby and the people passing by and their friends, families and colleagues.

Resistance is futil - we are the contagion and the cure :-)